i do believe men speak a foreign language. sometimes it's chinese and othertimes it's gutteral groans. women, of course, make perfect sense but to men our words probably come across as arabic or a strongly-accented scottish broad. i suppose the old adage is true: men are from mars and women are from venus. god must get a kick out of trying to see couples work things out. looking back it is comical to see what fights have been about and the colossal misunderstandings, but in the moment before you know things will work themselves out there has never been anything so serious. not even einstein's theory of relativism.
relationships are work-- hard work-- to make sure both parties are happy and fulfilled. vulnerability and communication do not come naturally, and every couple has their issues. i don't know how my life will turn out or exactly what the future holds. i do know that i want to give right now my all, so i know i did everything i could.
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Amen sista. I feel like we go through a lot of the same emotions! And I thought once we got engaged life would be peachy and simple...I feel like it's only just getting harder. Hang in there, you're so beautiful inside and out :)
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